Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault

If you are interested in counseling for Domestic Violence and/or Sexual Assault, call OakHeart at 630-570-0050 or 779-201-6440 or email us at Contact.OH@OakHeartCenter.com. We have counselors, psychologists, and social workers available to help you at one of our locations in North Aurora, IL, Sycamore, IL, and/or via Telehealth Online Therapy Services serving Kane County, DeKalb County, Dupage County, and beyond.

According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV), it is estimated that 10 million individuals a year are physically abused by an intimate partner a year. In addition, RAINN (Rape, assault, and Insest National Network), the nations largest anti-sexual violence organization, estimates that every 98 seconds another individual experiences sexual assault.

What is Domestic Violence?

NCADV defines domestic violence as the, “willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and/or other abusive behavior as part of a systematic pattern of power and control perpetrated by one intimate partner against another”. Domestic violence does not discriminate based on race, religion, economic status, age, education, sexual orientation, or nationality. Although physical abuse may occur within a domestic violent relationship, it is not always present and instead abusive behavior alone may be utilized by the abuser to maintain power and control. Some of these behaviors may include:

Telling the victim that they can never do anything right
Showing jealousy of the victim’s family and friends and time spent away
Accusing the victim of cheating
Keeping or discouraging the victim from seeing friends or family members
Embarrassing or shaming the victim with put-downs
Controlling every penny spent in the household
Taking the victim’s money or refusing to give them money for expenses
Looking at or acting in ways that scare the person they are abusing
Controlling who the victim sees, where they go, or what they do
Dictating how the victim dresses, wears their hair, etc.
Stalking the victim or monitoring their victim’s every move (in person or also via the internet and/or other devices such as GPS tracking or the victim’s phone)
Preventing the victim from making their own decisions
Telling the victim that they are a bad parent or threatening to hurt, kill, or take away their children
Threatening to hurt or kill the victim’s friends, loved ones, or pets
Intimidating the victim with guns, knives, or other weapons
Pressuring the victim to have sex when they don’t want to or to do things sexually they are not comfortable with
Forcing sex with others
Refusing to use protection when having sex or sabotaging birth control
Pressuring or forcing the victim to use drugs or alcohol
Preventing the victim from working or attending school, harassing the victim at either, keeping their victim up all night so they perform badly at their job or in school
Destroying the victim’s property

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It is important to remember that the most dangerous time for someone experiencing domestic violence in their relationship is when they attempt to leave the relationship and safety planning should be done prior to leaving or ending a domestic violent relationship.

What is Sexual Assault?

RAINN defines sexual assault as sexual contact or behavior that occurs without explicit consent of the victim. This may include:

Attempted rape
Fondling or unwanted sexual touching
Forcing a victim to perform sexual acts, such as oral sex or penetrating the perpetrator’s body, and penetration of the victim’s body, also known as rape.

Statistically, it is estimated that 7 out of 10 sexual assaults are committed by someone the victim knows such as a friend, intimate partner relationship, or acquaintance. It is important to remember that no matter what kind of sexual assault, it is never the victim's fault. Sexual violence can impact survivors psychologically, emotionally, and physically. These effects are not always easy for individuals to deal with and overcome, but with the right support they can be addressed.

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