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How to Manage Stress: Practical Tips from a Mental Health Therapist

6/11/2025

 
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How to Manage Stress: Practical Tips from a Mental Health Therapist

Stress is a normal part of life — but when it starts to feel overwhelming or unmanageable, or when someone experiences chronic stress, it can take a serious toll on your mental and physical health. At OakHeart, Center for Counseling, we often see clients who are juggling demanding jobs, caregiving responsibilities, financial pressures, and/or major life transitions. If you’re feeling stressed, know this: you’re not alone, and there are tools that can help.

What Is Stress?

Stress is your body’s natural response to a challenge or demand. In small doses, stress can be helpful — it can motivate you to meet deadlines or avoid danger. But chronic or intense stress can lead to anxiety, trouble sleeping, irritability, fatigue, and even health problems like headaches, digestive issues, or high blood pressure.

Signs You May Be Experiencing Too Much Stress

  • Feeling overwhelmed or constantly anxious
  • Changes in appetite or sleep patterns
  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
  • Frequent headaches or muscle tension
  • Irritability or mood swings
  • Withdrawing from friends or activities you enjoy or an increase in conflict in relationships
  • New or worsening medical conditions

How to Manage Stress: 6 Therapist-Backed Strategies

Here are six evidence-based ways to manage stress that we often recommend to our clients:

Practice Mindful Breathing

4-2-6 Breathing: Slowing down your breath tells your nervous system you’re safe. Try this simple exercise: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 2, exhale for 6. Repeat for 2–3 minutes. It’s a small practice with a big impact.

Move Your Body
Exercise reduces stress hormones and boosts feel-good chemicals like endorphins. You don’t need an intense workout — even a 10-minute walk can help clear your mind and reset your mood.

Set Healthy Boundaries
Stress often creeps in when we say yes to too much or when we consistently self-sacrifice. It’s okay to say no, reschedule, or delegate. Healthy boundaries protect your time, energy, and mental health. 

Prioritize Sleep
Lack of sleep can make stress feel 10 times worse. Aim for 7–9 hours of quality rest. Try creating a calming bedtime routine and keeping screens out of the bedroom. Engaging in healthy sleep hygiene habits is crucial. 

Connect with Others
Talking to someone you trust — a friend, family member, or therapist — can help process pent-up emotions and give you a fresh perspective. Simply connecting with others is an incredibly effective anti-depressant and anti-stress activity. 

Limit Stimulants and Substance Use
Caffeine, sugar, and alcohol can all contribute to anxiety and sleep problems. Pay attention to how these affect your stress levels and consider cutting back.

When to Seek Professional Help
If you’ve tried managing stress on your own but still feel stuck or overwhelmed, it may be time to speak with a mental health professional. Therapy can help you get to the root of your stress, develop healthy coping skills, and make lasting changes in your life.

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Stress may be common, but that doesn’t mean you have to carry it by yourself. Our team of licensed therapists is here to support you. Whether you’re navigating a major life change, work burnout, or just feeling emotionally drained, we’re ready to help you feel more grounded and in control.

​If you are interested in counseling for insomnia, call OakHeart at 630-570-0050 or 779-201-6440 or email us at [email protected]. We have counselors, psychologists, and social workers available to help you at one of our locations in North Aurora, IL, Sycamore, IL, and/or via Telehealth Online Therapy Services serving Kane County, DeKalb County, Dupage County, and beyond.

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  • Home
  • Counseling
  • Specialties
    • Depression
    • Bipolar Disorder
    • Anxiety Disorders >
      • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (Worry)
      • Social Anxiety Disorder
      • Panic Disorder and Agoraphobia
      • Health Anxiety
      • Specific Phobias
    • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
    • Eating Disorders
    • Grief and Bereavement
    • ADHD
    • Maternal Mental Health
    • Infertility, Miscarriage, and Neonatal Loss
    • Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
    • Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) >
      • COVID-19 Related PTSD and Anxiety >
        • COVID-19 Resources
    • Trauma
    • Non-Suicidal Self-Injury (NSSI)
    • Substance Use Disorders (SUD)
    • Anger Management
    • Adjustment/Stress
    • Insomnia
    • Divorce Recovery
    • Relationship Concerns and Couples Counseling
    • Self-Esteem
    • Therapy for Therapists
    • LGBTQA+ Support
    • Faith-Based Counseling
    • Responder & Veteran Care
  • Providers
    • Pamela Heilman
    • Katie Sheehan
    • Hillary Gorin
    • Lee Ann Heathcoat
    • Adam Ginsburg
    • Megan Noren
    • Sarah Williams
    • Christina Bieche
    • Bridgette Koukos
    • Alma Lazaro
    • Leah Arthur
    • Amy Jakobsen
    • Lizzy Lowe
    • Gerry Lawm
    • Melanie Vause
    • Caroline Dress
    • Kevin Hamor
    • Abby Jeske
    • Hannah Amundson
    • Rebecca Gary
    • Heather Simpson
    • Cory Giguere
    • Vanessa Osmer
    • Kat Harris
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    • North Aurora Counseling
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    • Telehealth Online Counseling
  • Contact
  • Treatments
    • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
    • Exposure and Response Prevention
  • Employment
  • FAQ and Notices
  • OakHeart Blog
  • Administrative and Leadership Team
  • Mental Health Resources
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